Unexpected Life Changes
If you find yourself halted for a long duration of time brought on by various circumstances, it may be time to look at what happened, why it may have happened, and what has materialized from it. Death is a natural occurrence that can't always be explained but even in that, we ourselves must keep living. The loss of a job, relationship, or friend may happen, and although we may believe at that time that we can't live without certain things and people, those experiences usually teach us that we can.
Allow the changes that you've experienced in life to mature you enough to then, plant a seed and water it, to enable the growth of someone else. In 1 Corinthians Paul's says, " I planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase." There's someone waiting on your 'overcomer' journey, you only need to take it.