The things we like and the things we don't. The people we like and the people we don't. Everyone has a choice when it comes to who they want in their inner circles and who they want to date and so on and so on. But how are we choosing these individuals? Once upon time when I was a little more (a lot more) combative in nature, I surrounded myself with like personalities, but now that I'm older and more mild tempered, I tend to stray from this very personality type which means that I lost a few friends/family members along the way. Majority of the time, there isn't a complete separation from family but time spent together can drastically decrease when lifestyles and personalities conflict.
In essence, it's okay to grow and then outgrow. Whether you choose to keep people in your life who you may have outgrown is totally up to you. The choices that we make are usually predicated on the amount of knowledge that we possess. Assess what you know, pray for wisdom and guidance, and make the best choice for YOU. Blessings.